Do I Have an Automatic Right to Apply as a Grandparent?
No, you don’t have an automatic right to your grandchildren. However, family court does recognise how important the role of a grandparent can be in the lives of children. As long as you have a relationship with them and there’s no history of abuse, violence, or neglect, the court will grant you permission. Here’s how it all works:
- Mediation Information & Assessment Meeting (MIAM)
If you’re going to apply to court, you need to consider mediation first with a family mediator. If it’s unsuccessful, the mediator will issue a mediation certificate so you can make your court application. Such a MIAM costs £130 with Mediate UK and the cost of the Mediation Certificate is £65.
- C100 Application
You can find the form for the C100 application online or download it here. There is a full guide on how to complete the form here. In this form, you must seek leave of the court to apply. Keep in mind that the children are always at the centre of this process, so focus on why your grandchildren should be in contact with you, not the other way around. Answer the question: What do the children gain from being in contact with you? The application has a fee of £232 and you must pay it to the court. If you have a low income or are on benefits, you could get help to pay the fee.
- Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service (CAFCASS)
Once you apply, family court will consider whether you can be in contact with your grandchildren and if so, what kind of contact would be most beneficial for them. There’s indirect contact (letters, phone calls, video calls, etc.) and direct contact (face to face meetings).
The court will appoint a CAFCASS Welfare Officer, who will talk to all parties involved. The officer will investigate all the issues that concern the welfare of the children involved. Then, they will send a report to the court so they can make a decision. The concerned parties will get a copy of the CAFCASS report. If the report strongly recommends that contact should be allowed, you can ask the parents to let you see your grandchildren. If not, the next step is a court hearing.
- Court Hearing
Family court is nothing like criminal court, so don’t be worried about your court hearing. They all just want to help families. This means the environment is a lot more supportive because the process is not about finding if someone’s innocent or guilty. Everyone at court recognises that the child is at the center of all this, making things very different than what you may have in mind.
During the court hearing, you, the applicant, and the parents of the children, the respondent, will provide evidence. You must focus on explaining how you’ve been a part of your grandchildren’s lives and how they will be negatively impacted by not having you around.
When it comes to making a decision, the court will take into consideration the CAFCASS report. If it’s in the best interest if the children, the court will issue an order so you can remain in contact and it will outline what kind of contact you’ll be able to enjoy from now on.
What If Parents Don’t Acknowledge the Court Order?
This can happen and it’s extremely frustrating when it does. If the parents ignore the court order, you can go back to court and explain how the parents have breached the order. Then, family court will enforce the order and potentially punish the parents for disregarding the court order in the first place.
Frequently Asked Questions About Grandparent Access Rights
Do I have an automatic legal grandparent rights to stay in contact with my grandchildren?
No, you don’t, which is why you need to ask the family court for permission if all else fails.
What should I do if I can’t see my grandchildren?
The first thing you need to do is talk to the parents to try and solve this informally. If not, you can attempt family mediation. If that fails, you may apply to the family court.
What is the legal process like for grandparents rights?
You have to schedule a MIAM first and if that fails, or is deemed unsuitable, you can apply to the court. After that, you’ll have a hearing at family court and they will ultimately make a decision.
Do I need a solicitor for my court application?
A solicitor is not required, so you can go to court by yourself. But you can ask for support to many different organisations or consider a Mackenzie Friend.
What type of Order can I apply for?
The type ofcourt order you apply for will very much depend on the specific situation. It is always advisable to seek legal advice on the best way order for your grandchildren. There are a number of different legal orders including:
- Special Guardianship Order– the court will appoint you as a the ‘Special Guardian’ of your grandchild until they turn 18.
- Child Arrangement Order– the court will decide where and when the children have contact with you.
- Kinship foster care– when you become an official foster carer for a child.
- Adoption– this will break the link between your grandchild and their birth parents. You will legally become your grandchild’s parent.
Case Study – Grandparent Rights Through Mediation
Richard and Florence had enjoyed a loving and caring relationship with their three grandchildren, aged 12, 8 and 5. When their son and step-daughter, Emma got divorced, they helped their son financially with his legal fees and the divorce was a messy and contested one. Emma was angry at Richard and Florence as they had funded the legal fees for the divorce and felt by doing so they were partly to blame for the marriage to end. They had not seen their grandchildren for 7 months – the longest they had ever gone without seeing them.
Richard and Florence previously had a good relationship with the other set of grand-parents but since the divorce they and Emma had not been in touch and had declined all attempts at communication. Their son was having difficulty with the parenting arrangements himself. It was all a bit of a mess
Richard and Florence attended a MIAM together with Mediate UK. The mediator then wrote to Emma inviting her to mediation. Emma agreed as she did not want to look bad if it went to court, but said she was not prepared to allow the children to see their grandparents unsupervised as she was worried they would say unkind things about her to the children, which would be detrimental to their wellbeing
Emma held her MIAM and then the mediator invited them all in for a face to face meeting. With the help of the mediator and using our progressive mediation process, they each had a chance to express their concerns and their hopes for the future. They quickly agreed a stepping-stone plan to re-integrate Richard and Florence into the grandchildrens’ lives. Within a month of their MIAM, Richard and Florence were helping with the childcare for the grandchildren, which was of benefit to Emma, themselves and the grandchildren – and the family has started to rebuild bridges.
It’s sad that many grandparents all over England and Wales have to deal with being away from their grandchildren due to divorce or separation or when they have fallen out with their own children.
Many of them go straight to a family lawyer, but their first stop, if they are unable to resolve it between
themselves, should be a family mediator. UK grandparent access rights allow you to maintain contact
with your children. Though these rights are not automatic, you can go to a family mediator to try and smooth things over and find a solution.
If that fails, family court is your next step. Though it will take longer, if you can prove your relationship to your grandchildren is beneficial to them, an order is likely to be given allowing you to continue your loving relationship with your grandchildren.
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